So what is really up with this phenomenon of the Bad Boy?
In a word--Excitement! Yes, that man is edgy and challenging and we ladies like challenges just as well as men. We also have competitive natures, just not necessarily in the same areas. We want to keep up with this beautiful Bad Boy--to contain and control and domesticate him! But let's keep one thing in mind about these Bad Boys--they are unpredictably predictable! We kinda know that they are gonna do what they do, but we don't always know when or how or with whom.
Now, instead of accepting this about this beautiful creature called the BAD BOY, and just flowing with it like water for chocolate, we ladies allow our mothering natures, our setting things right, nurturing natures to kick in. And when dealing with that Bad Boy, who has been rebelling against his momma since he was 10 years old, this mothering nature is just not gonna work. Simple as that. He's a rebel! That's what attracted you to him! So you have to let a rebel be a rebel! The ONE THING a rebel loves and thrives on, it is when a woman like you or me tries to CHANGE HIM from being a rebel!! That's when he can really put the pedal to the metal in his rebelliousness! That's when he can really be bad! That's when he comes aliiive!
Now ladies, if you want that rebellious, sexy, Bad to the bone Boy, you have to accept him for who and what he is. Do Not, I repeat, Do NOT try to change him. Anyway, it just doesn't make sense to want to change him into that thing that you're not attracted to anyway. If he humored you and actually changed, you'd probably kick him to the curb, and pronto!
So in closing, ladies, I want you to repeat after me: "I have no power to change my bad boy, and I will accept my bad boy for who and what he is, whatever his vice".